The Beginning....

Well, hello......this is my very first ever post on this website, and I have no idea where to start. This post is probably going to be very long, because I like to talk and I have to catch people up on my life. Lol.

Umm...let's start with the biggest thing in my life right now, my boyfriend Asa Alexander Cole. I've been with him for the past 9 months, (10 on the 27) and he is definetly my heart. I met him in grammer school, when he was dating my best friend. *don't judge, she was new to town, he was the most popular boy in school, and they only dated for a little while. She liked him at first, but she definetly looks back now and slaps herself.* Now where was I, oh yeah...we met when I was in 7th grade and he was in 8th. I had transferred to McKinley suddenly and I didn't know anyone. I met my best friend, Ashley *Asa's ex* in the schoolyard on the first day of school and just become really attached. But anyways, the first day I met him, Ashley had to take a test afterschool and he walked me outside to my car. I know its wack, but it was kinda of like "like at first sight." We exchanged numbers, and he called me later that night. I know what you're thinking, but it wasn't even like that. He had to call me, so I could call Ashley on three way, because she couldn't have guy phone calls. Well, we did that, and eventually he just started calling me just to talk to me. They eventually broke up and I eventually left that school, and we unfortunately lost touch. He graduated and went on to high school, and I went back to my old school in the city. We didn't talk, we didn't see each other, but he never left my mind. I would call him every once and a while and he would come out with me every once in a while, with friends, never alone. I remember one night, it was me, Amber(ex friend), and my best friend Nakeba. We were walking around River Oaks(we were young, clearly), and we called Asa. He came up there with his best friend at the time Khyrie, and we went to Bennigans. Anyways, to make a long story short, my Dad came up there at the end and had to pay for everything because we ordered food with NO MONEY!!! How dumb? I guess you know now, that Daddy isn't too fond of him now. Well, we didn't talk too much after that incident. Umm...so...that was freshman year...fast forward to the next time we saw each other....Sophmore Year....I'm laying in my bed, a random friday or saturday night and my phone rings. Luckily, my phone number hadn't changed, or I don't know when I would've ever spoken to him again. Anyways, I look at the caller ID...."708-502...." I was shocked!! I answered the phone and..
Tay: Hello...
Asa: Hey. What's up?
Tay: Nothing. I was just laying down.
Asa: Well, get up. What are you doing tonight?
Tay: *thinking...its like 11:30 at night, I'm definetly not doing anything* Nothing...What are you doing?
Asa: I'm at the gas station....can you get out?
Tay: *WTF??!!* Umm...yea.
Asa: Well, get dressed and shit, and I'm gon' call you back when I'm on my way. *hangs up*

I'm thinking this is all bullshit, because he had called me before on this same stuff, but he never called back. This time was different, though. Around 12:30, he called me back and best believe I had gotten dressed and practiced how I was going to get out of my bedroom window. He called me and told me he was outside and I told him to turn he lights off, he must've been a pro, because he was sitting down the street with them off. I thought getting out my window would be easy, but sure enough I got stuck. I just let myself fall, and it hurt but I just wiped it off. Lol. I went to the car, and told him I fell. He just laughed. I didn't know exactly what we could possibly do at 12:30-1 in the morning, but I had a feeling he might've wanted to have sex. Hmmm....well, we'll get to that part. We drove around, ended up in Cal City, and he pulled over and parked in front of someone house and reached in the back for something. It was a bottle of Vodka. Yes, folks. Asa is the person responsible for my first drink. Anyways, he poured hisself a cup and then poured me a cup. I was definetly hesitant, because he wanted me to take a shot. I definetly wasn't experienced at that shit, like I am now? Lol. He poured me a shot, and a cup of lime green juice for a chaser. "Take it to the head! Drink it fast, and grab your chaser." I did it, but I punked out, by opening the car door and spitting it out. It tasted horrible. He got so mad..."Did you waste some good liquor?" I just sipped on that chaser the whole night. Anyways, we evenutally went back to his house, and met his best friend, Kendell. *I know they don't plan on having a threesome* Anyways, we talked in the basement, and Kendell was high and drunk and I didn't want him to drive home like that, but he left anyways. Then, Asa came downstairs and turned the light off. "Here we go..." He came over to the couch, and we started kissing. He asked me if I had been kissing anybody else, and I said, "No." I didn't mention our one incident, he was my first kiss. I guess, I had gotten better because he asked. Anyways, he started to remove clothes, and I told him...no....because if I just had sex with you out of the blue, then you won't respect me. We fooled around for a couple of hours, and he tried to convince me, but I wasn't budging. I guess he called himself getting mad, and he decided to take me home. It was 3:30 in the morning anyways, and I needed to figure out how I was going to get back in my house. We kissed goodnight and I went home. I tried calling him the next day, but of course he didn't answer. I saw him the next week at Thornwood's Homecoming and he didn't even speak to me. I was to done.....I never thought he'd be one of those guys that would stop talking to you because you wouldn't have sex with them, but he did. I completely forgot about him, and moved on. Well, that's the beginning of me & Asa......if you want to know the most recent read the next post..."The Middle..."